aku suka banget sama orang yang fokus sama hidupnya sendiri, enjoy sama dunianya, enggak berisik, enggak banyak show off, dan enggak ngejar perhatian. Hidupnya tenang, kerja stabil, work-life balance, enggak haus validasi dan enggak sibuk ngurusin urusan orang lain.
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mungkin ini bukan unpopular opinion, tapi ini pesan untuk yang sedang berusaha buat nikahin pasangannya,
“jangan lupa untuk memastikan orang yang menunggumu buat nikah itu bahagia dalam perjalanan menunggunya itu”.
Masih menjadi misteri kenapa anak yang diberi unlimited freedom by thier parents lebih berakal and never crossed the limit daripada anak yang strict parents.
In a relationship you have to see your partner point of view and be considerate and willing to grow. Change your ways and learn from your mistakes especially if that’s the person you wanna be with.
@keotsune This is valid. And that’s why at least jatuh cinta sama orang yang lebih baik dari kita, biar kalau ga dapet orangnya atau pisah, kita masih dapat banyak kebaikannya.
Aku jadi keinget kata-kata yang kalo nggak salah, “once you’re in love, you will slowly become someone you love.” Not an exact copy, but it’s more like you will adopt something from them… bisa jadi kebiasaan, cara bertutur kata, even sesimpel vocab yang dipake pacar pun bakal—
I don’t think you should date anyone who you can’t show basic curiosity about their interest at some level whether it’s actually trying to take part or just listen or asking questions . You should want to know the person you love which includes their special interests
There are men who are fine as fck, providers, emotionally intelligent, family oriented, and will put everyone in their place about you. Don't ever let anyone convince you that you can't have that.
normalize not reaching out to someone who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. they know they haven't spoken to you, and it's because they don't want to.
You can be someone’s favorite person and still be their last priority. They might boast about you to friends but never make real space for you in their life. Being 'loved' in words means nothing if you aren't 'chosen' in actions.
Unfortunately, yes i sure DO give up on people.. you can't continuously disappoint me, distract me, not pour into me & expect me to continue showing up for you. No can do.