Rob Coughlan

Family man who enjoys rugby coaching, learning and a quality ale! Views clearly my own!

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

Thank you, that’s a shame. Not on until November!

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

Good evening!! Is CineSational on tomorrow night (August 26th)?? #AskUniversal

[The Sporting Resource @TheS_Resource]

🧵 Thread: Youth sports parents and why yelling and shouting from the sideline on game day doesn't help the players?"

1⃣ Distraction: Shouting from the sidelines serves as a significant distraction, diverting players' attention away from the game and impeding their ability to concentrate fully, which ultimately undermines their performance.

2⃣ Increased Pressure: The continual shouts and instructions place undue pressure on young players, creating an environment where they feel the weight of expectations rather than the joy of play. This heightened pressure can negatively impact their confidence and overall enjoyment of the game.

3⃣ Confusion: With multiple voices clamouring for attention, players are bombarded with conflicting instructions, leading to confusion, hesitation, and a higher likelihood of making mistakes on the field. This confusion disrupts their ability to execute game plans effectively.

4⃣ Undermining Coach's Authority: Parents shouting from the sidelines undermines the coach and disrupts the carefully crafted team dynamics and strategies. It sends mixed signals to players.

5⃣ Lack of Autonomy: Players thrive when given the autonomy to make decisions and learn from their experiences on the field. However, constant shouting from the sidelines minimises this opportunity.

6⃣ Negative Impact on Performance: The stress caused by parental shouting can harm players' performance, decreasing their motivation and diminishing their enjoyment of the game.

7⃣ Communication Breakdown: Sideline shouting contributes to a breakdown in on-field communication among players. Instead of relying on clear and effective communication with their teammates, players become overwhelmed by the mixture of sounds, leading to misunderstandings and disjointed play.

8⃣ Diminished Player Confidence: Constant directives from the sidelines can gradually affect players' confidence in their own abilities. When players feel scrutinised and micromanaged, they are less likely to take risks and showcase their full potential, hindering their overall growth as athletes.

9⃣ Tension in the Environment: The atmosphere created by parental shouting is often tense and unpleasant, detracting from the positive experience of participating in youth sports. Instead of fostering a supportive and nurturing environment, it breeds anxiety and unease among players.

🔟 Detrimental Long-Term Effects: The negative effects of parental shouting extend beyond the immediate game day experience, impacting players' long-term enjoyment of sports and their willingness to continue participating. It can lead to burnout, disengagement, and a loss of passion for the game.

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[The Sporting Resource @TheS_Resource]

🧵Benefits of being silent as a youth coach during game day:

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1⃣ Empowerment: Remaining silent during youth games empowers players to take ownership of their decisions and actions on the field. It allows them to solve problems independently and learn from their mistakes.

2⃣ Player Development: Silence allows young athletes to develop their decision-making abilities. They learn to read the game, make choices, and adapt to different situations without constant instruction.

3⃣ Confidence Building: When coaches remain silent, players gain confidence in their abilities. They learn to trust themselves, knowing that their coach believes in their skills and judgment.

4⃣ Reduced Pressure: Excessive shouting and instructions from the sidelines can put undue pressure on youth players. Silence creates a more relaxed atmosphere, fostering better performance and enjoyment.

5⃣ Improved Communication: Players become more reliant on communication with their teammates when the coach isn't constantly providing directions. This enhances their on-field communication skills, an essential aspect of team sports.

6⃣ Focus on Fun: Youth sports should primarily be about fun and enjoyment. Silence allows players to focus on having fun, developing a love for the game, and building positive memories.

7⃣ Learning from Mistakes: Mistakes are part of the learning process. When coaches don't intervene with constant feedback, players have the opportunity to make mistakes, learn from them, and grow.

8⃣ Resilience: Silence encourages players to develop resilience. They learn to handle adversity, bounce back from setbacks, and stay composed under pressure, valuable life skills.

9⃣ Parent and Coach Role Clarification: Silence during games can help clarify the roles of parents and coaches. Parents can enjoy watching their children play without feeling the need to provide coaching instructions from the sidelines.

1⃣0⃣ Positive Sports Environment: A silent coach contributes to a positive sports environment where young athletes feel supported and encouraged rather than pressured or scrutinised.

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[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

U11 rugby training called off for the 3rd week due to wet pitches! 1 of our coaches threw together an online quiz for the kids on menti. Great engagement (they knew more than we gave credit for!!) - this was the word cloud for 3 words to describe rugby! #justletthemplay

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[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

@AntonyMHill @russellearnshaw @mathsnsport @FletcherRugby Yep or the “life isn’t like that” and “the ‘better’ players will leave” are the comments I see the most. The “character building” is the worst though!!

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

Loads of learning and smiling faces no doubt 🙄

[RussellEarnshaw @russellearnshaw]

u14… 🤷‍♂️

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u14… 🤷‍♂️

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

Worth your time for a watch.

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"So I was watching the Red Roses this morning, and they did this crazy move

I think its called 'passing to the wingers'. Let's give it a go lads"

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

@_IWFC @NewSalamisFCUK @IsthmianLeague @NonLeagueCrowd @NonLgeProgs @GroundhopperUK Hello, where do you recommend for parking??

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

@SpursOfficial @SpursREACH 🖤🤍💙

[Alan Byrne @ancoraemparo]

Did your Dad put any pressure on you?

"Nah, he was one of those who would stand in the corner on the sideline with his jacket on and hood up, saying nothing - that helped me,"

Imagine if we just let the kids play and enjoy their sport!

Parents + Coaches 🤫🤐⚽️🇮🇪

[Grassroots @Teamgrassroots_]

In the last two years since joining a committee at a football club I have learnt the biggest lessons ever.

As a coach... you go to training sessions, you go to matches, you go the odd managers meeting and if your not using council pitches you mark out a pitch. That alone is hard work let alone taking on the most unsavoury part which is that you take flack from parents who don’t realise you are still paying for your child too.

HOWEVER as a committee member and a manager this year I decided to take three weeks from training, I even dare to take a holiday.

In that three weeks I was still dealing with:
* new teams
* Teams leaving
* Player enquiries
* Registrations
* Sorting out players and parents that decide to leave despite having put out numerous amount of messages months before.
* Kit orders which some how have to be collected during my busiest period of work
* Equipment orders
* Organising the collection of data for dbs so that new teams can actually run
* League meetings
* Parent enquiries and complaints which may have started from earlier during the season
* Chasing up of subs so that bills can be paid for the season ahead.
* Keeping on top of other managers.
* Cut time short at work to interview new coaches

You can’t really blame my wife for the sheer fact that whilst I’m meant to be taking a break my mind actually hasn’t switched off taking time away from my family.

Now let’s not forget the fact that like other parents I too will pay my subs, I too am self employed , i too have family members ,I too have children and a family.

Now over the course of the season il be doing my best like other committee members to ensure that the upkeep of the club is run. When there’s heavy rain forecasted il be getting down the club super early to make a call on pitches whilst others are slowly getting out of their bed and waking up and waiting for my call or text. However whilst I will do all the above I will also get it wrong at times. I will make the wrong decision at times , the wrong sub, perhaps make a wrong decision whilst trying to ref and run the team at the same time.

Sadly I’ve listened to parents and grandparents from my own club slate other managers and committee members on the sidelines forgetting that these VOLUNTEERS stepped up quite simply when no one else did.

Different clubs do things differently as I have found out first hand. I am doing the job that at some clubs has four people doing, but at other clubs doesn’t even have one. WE ARE VOLUNTEERS.

So on behalf of every grassroots coach in the country can I please ask every grassroots parent to ensure that when they are perhaps having their conversations about the coach or managers on the sidelines, that they remember they have taken A LOT of time away from their own families and children to take time out for yours.

This is all about the children in the team , however if you feel you could do some of the roles your club takes on then join the team, however if you can’t due to the problems and time constraints, which your child’s manager also has then please let them do the job they enjoy as best as they can.

Many thanks,
Every hardworking grassroots volunteer

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

FFS!

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[Luke Cheyne @_LukeCheyne]

Mary Earps 👏

Be unapologetically yourself ❤️

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

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Dickson, scores

4-2 on penalties.

[Rob Coughlan @rjcoughlan]

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