Waiting for the day when SAPS will start a statement by saying “We urge men to stop raping and killing women…” instead of “we urge women to be cautious…” as though it’s the women’s fault that they are harassed, raped and killed🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾
Hell yeah! Why do you think men are scared to go jail? For me, that’s when the lightbulb went on. Like damn, how we feel about prison is how women feel about being out & about in general. Crazy, right?
Because no amount of caution can truly keep them safe. Uyinene was killed in a post office. Tsontso was jogging. Telling women to send each other their locations doesn’t solve anything. Problem ke banna. Men are the reason women are being killed, eseng lack of caution 🧍🏾♂️
Rent. Petrol hike. Talking stages. Electricity hike. 8 liters a day. Ashwaganda. Supplements. Vitamins. Degree. KPIs. 10 000 steps a day. Exercise. Tax free savings. Retirement annuity. Smell good. Therapy. Heal your inner child. Madlanga commission. March and March. Blended families. Baby mama/daddy drama. Levies. Laundry. Kids. Text back. Lunchboxes. Living on a budget. Car insurance. Being a wife. Mom. Dinner preps. Hobbies. Staying in touch with your loved ones. Weekend = saturday only. Church. One book a month. Applying sunscreen. Probiotics. School fees. Kegel exercises. Praying. Meditating. Balanced diet. Vacations. Tax. Interest rates. View once salary. 8 hours of rest. Saxophone is getting louder. Payflex. Pay just now. Living beyond our means. Networking. Multiple streams of income. Travel. Fasting. Build your investment portfolio. Unemployment. Kind regards.
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You cannot:
Work full time, raise children, keep a spotless home, show up fully in your marriage, maintain friendships, stay fit, build wealth, read books, pursue hobbies, serve only home cooked meals, answer every email, and still make the 3:30 school pickup.
That standard was created to keep you exhausted and blaming yourself. Let it go.