Will an Illegal immigrant, released from a foreign penitentiary, be selling fentanyl to you children or grandchildren today? Will they be recruiting your middle school children into their gangs or kidnapping your 11-15 year old daughter for human trafficking? NOT if ICE gets to them first!
It’s not worth arguing about. He’s an Adult if he wants the range light on so be it… If you want the oven light on with the door cracked open that’s fine too… your both grown adults neither one of you need to act like other’s parent. Let’s argue next over which way the toilet paper should roll or over do you put on a sock and a sock then shoes or sock/shoe.. sock/shoe. Don’t sweat the small stuff… love each other and enjoy your moments together.