guys,
- tali BH keliatan itu normal
- pakai pembalut itu normal
- bawa pembalut di tas itu normal
- noda darah haid di celana itu bisa kejadian dan normal
- beli pembalut di kasir itu normal
- bulu badan tumbuh itu normal
- punya stretch marks itu normal
- jerawatan itu normal
- nggak selalu tampil cantik/rapi itu normal
- nangis karena hal kecil itu normal
- bilang “aku lagi capek” itu normal
being a woman is literally just having a body. please let women exist without making everything embarrassing.
Jujur, gw suka bgt dg kata²nya Cinta Laura di suatu podcast. Kurang lebih gini.
"I want a leader. I want my man to be my leader in our relationship. I would like the man to actually be a man. Tapi bukan berarti aku ingin dalam hubungan yang misogynist juga . Dalam arti, if I were to get married and have kids one day, laki-laki juga harus mengerti bahwa karena aku juga bekerja, karena aku juga memiliki karir, dia juga mengerti bahwa kadang-kadang, let's say ada apa-apa dengan anaknya, kita bergantian dalam mengurus anak tersebut. Shared responsibility."
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
effort yang paling besar itu bukan tentang materi, melainkan tenaga dan waktu. seperti fast respon, inisiatif nelpon, selalu ngasih kabar, menjadi pendengar yang baik, nyari topik obrolan. Itu semua bagian dari effort, jadi tolong dihargai.
princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever i want. it means he LISTENS. he PROTECTS. he LEADS. he is HUMBLE. He communicates. he doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. he doesn't makes me feel like i'm hard to love. he is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
untuk para perempuan yang punya prinsip “i can do it by myself” semoga dipertemukan dengan laki-laki yang “i know you can, but let me help you to handle it”.
Having a CONSISTENT man that's in the mood for u everyday is TOP TIER. He wants to talk to u everyday no matter how busy he is. A man that craves ur energy. A man who cherishes you. A man who desires ur presence. A man who provides & protects. A man who brings out ur soft side >
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Tidak ada tempat aman buat perempuan.
Baju terbuka dikata menggoda, baju udah tertutup malah dilecehin.
Jalan biasa aja kena cat calling, ramah salah, keluar malem salah.
Laki-laki?
"Wajar lah, namanya juga cowok" 🥲
Dear men, the scariest thing for a woman isn't starting from zero with you… it's realizing she was only meant for that phase. 🥺
Ada istilah namanya starter girlfriend. Dipacarin ketika merintis, pas udah sukses cewenya ditinggalin karena benchmark si cowo dalam mencari cewe udah naik.
jadi cewe stress banget ya anjirr punya boobs kecil dibilang tepos kek papan. giliran gede disexualized dijadiin objek. jago ranjang dikira nakal, ga jago dibilang gabisa "muasin". ga kerja dibilang babu, kerja dibilang workaholic bukan wife material etc gilaaaaaaa