robby1973

Hello I'm Robbi. he/him.
90% average 8% normal and 5% bad at maths, pollyamorus LGBTQIA 🌈

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@missivyrose_ Fetish expo, hopefully I can find some more canes and floggers

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@sarahntuned I guess it depends on the ratio required to achieve relief of said burn. At 1:1, water to pee. the sheer amount of pee required would be unrealistic, at around 14:1, which could be a safe starting point, relief maybe evident at 18:1 but that's not sustainable for long periods

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@ZoeDemure Unexpected item in the bagging area.

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@ItsZoePreston I highly recommend https://t.co/2Jw6DkGvFY Tess is an amazing, inclusive person who is facing extreme adversity. The intimacy and cancer support group is amazing, full of information and inspiration. You will be welcomed there

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@ItsZoePreston Informed of the side effects of medication and surgery. When my partner had their cancer treatment, we felt rushed into decisions. The biggest regret was having reconstruction surgery at the same time as the cancer removal. The loss of sensation was not worth looking symmetrical

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@PupAmp Bring your own towel to sit on.
Snacks for aftercare, consent, condoms and curiosity.

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@Lacethebarber @HoneyHolidayy Oh shit, this is such a great idea. Unfortunately, I can't make it there, jealous of the guys that get to experience a cut n blow

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@adambspencer We are watching the fall of America on prime time. We will never really know if this was staged or a genuine attempt on his life. Fake news, biased reporting of opinions as facts to people fighting for something they never had.

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@deliciouslybad @eSafety0ffice I really hope you find someone to take on your book, I recommend it to all my male friends and clients. It's such a great educational tool. Having said that, every female AFAB person has a copy in our household plus an extra to lend to a friend if needed

[Eva Lishus 💚🖤❤️🤍 @deliciouslybad]

Watching the esafety commissioner talking about young men online and it's so good but also ITS WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING FOR DECADES!

Someone please take on my book now it's out of print.
It is SO IMPORTANT!

#auspol
#SexEducationIsVital @eSafety0ffice

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@ZoeDemure

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@deliciouslybad Just submitted a uni assignment on risk factors in family break up and divorce, and cited your book as a resource for the father. The goal is to work with male behaviour change when I complete my bachelor degree

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@Lacethebarber I'd be down for Friday the 12th, I'll txt you if want

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@Autistic_Lia Yes, growing up I always wondered why I never got invited to my friends birthday party's etc. Trips to fun parks or camping. I was just confused and didn't figure it out until much later

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 Look at the original post, we know all about how this alleged murderer played football. His dad played at an AFL level, his teammates and classmates, being named could affect his mental health, almost nothing about Samantha. Minimising his actions, but alleged is your take away

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 No reason other than the entitlement of a man who saw her as a means to fulfil his own needs, actions are minimised because he played footy, his actions are forgiven because of people who miss the point like you, people who look for anything else to blame rather that reflecting

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 I am saying reflect on those WE as men hold as role models. Do they hold themselves or their team mates accountable for their actions? Or do we turn a blind eye because we don't want to accept the harsh truth

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@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 On the fact that our own behaviour contributes to the continuation of violence. Ask yourself why do I hold the perpetrators of violence as role models and why the fuck would you defend them.

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 We carry the weight of intergenerational trauma, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and a reliance on alcohol and substance abuse. If sporting stars want to be role models, they need to lead by example, call it out every time, hold themselves + others to account, do therapy, be better

[robby1973 @robbj731]

@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 There will be some, however, even those good "role models" do not hold there team mates accountable every time. Sporting environments are places where violence against women can occur directly and, if allowed,
can provide a setting for entrenched violence to occur

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@White65391David @deliciouslybad @isaacmckay96 When football finals are on, there is a dramatic increase in domestic violence. The stat's back this up, you want to say it's not all men, again the stat's do not back this up. Australian men are not willing to accept that they are part of the problem