People lack accountability and then say “you could’ve talked to me.” No, I couldn’t. You don’t listen or you deflect. You turn every concern into an attack, twist the conversation and somehow make yourself the victim. Talking to you doesn’t bring resolution, it leaves me exhausted. I don’t owe my peace to someone who only wants a conversation to win an argument instead of understand what I’m saying.
Women are more brutal when it comes to breakups and moving on. But they sure give you tons of chances and grace to fix up or step up. They set a deadline mentally. And when they reach that deadline they leave. They checkout and show you the brutal side of them.
i don’t think people understand that friendship requires maintenance.
you can’t disappear for months, never check in, never make plans, never ask how someone is doing and then reappear with “you know i love you.”
love without effort starts to feel like a concept instead of a relationship.
Media Rounds Day One🌸❤️
And just like that, a new chapter begins🤍.
From the Biggie’s house to everything that awaits beyond those doors, the journey continues, and I’m so excited for all that’s ahead✨
Here’s to new experiences, new opportunities, and bigger dreams. The journey begins from here🥂❤️
Thank you @extract_ng for the beautiful robe🌸❤️
#Bbnaija #kamsy
My mum will say
“Whatever you see in a man will never go away.
It is 5x Amplified when you marry him
Love is the first thing that flies out of the window”
Resist the urge to force accountability or change on people.
If it’s not your cup of tea. Stand ten toes on it.
Don’t bite me oh, but I feel like when some women say they want an intentional man, they’re not necessarily talking about money or expensive gifts. I think some women genuinely just want to see someone go out of their way to make it obvious that they want them in their lives.
“What are you wearing. Switch to video call”
The smile on her face when she switched to video call is so bright 😁😁
I think this girl and David have finally moved from just friendship to lovers ❤️
She can’t even hide it anymore 😂