tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
Bonnie Tyler’s peaks on the Hot 100 (with peak date)
#1 - Total Eclipse of the Heart (Oct. 1983)
#3 - It’s a Heartache (June 1978)
#34 - Holding Out For A Hero (April 1984)
#46 - Take Me Back (Jan. 1984)
#76 - Here She Comes (Sept. 1984)
#77 - If You Were a Woman (May 1986)