One thing I can say with absolute certainty is when a dude loses the women he thought was his forever - any loss after that… we’ll be alright. Ain’t shit the same. Someone take this alcohol away from me I’m spitting straight facts and it’s not needed or wanted 🤷🏻♂️
According to psychology, the way you fight with your partner is often a reflection of how you learned to handle conflict as a child. If you shut down, you may have learned early on that your voice did not matter. If you explode, you may have learned that anger was the only way to be heard. If you apologize too quickly, you may have learned that peace was more important than your truth. These patterns are not weaknesses, they are survival strategies, they kept you safe when you were young, but they may be destroying your relationships now, and healing means unlearning the strategies that no longer serve you, learning to communicate not from fear, but from clarity, staying present when every instinct tells you to run or fight, that is the work, and it is the most important work you will ever do.
Shit be really crazy when I sit back & think about it. I’m doing all this for what? Possibly nothing but at the same time it’s all for something. More specifically for someone. But is it really if they don’t come back? Tragic. I guess it’s for me more than anything but is it rly?
Wondering why I just don’t keep shit to myself… internalize it type shit. Maybe cause some day in the future I and other people can come back and look at this as a record book type thing and see what I was on the day of ____ at ____am/pm. Cool lil reminder of stuff
Sometimes….. I just be wondering…… wondering what’s happening…… wondering what da fuck going on…. Wondering why tf shit went down how it did… just…… wondering……
Wondering if I should delete my Twitter account… just another distraction…. But is it really? I have the smallest amount of screen time on this app out of all the apps I use. I think bc it’s sorta like a journal for me since I have the least amount of people I know IRL here…..
The saddest part about liking someone nowadays is having to guard your heart like love is a danger zone. You can’t even like someone peacefully without wondering if it’s real or if you’re just another temporary experience to them. Dating now feels like choosing between being played, confused, or emotionally drained because too many people treat hearts like hobbies and relationships like temporary entertainment.