This probably makes me weird but I’ve never felt the urge to have sex with someone based on attraction. Like I can appreciate/see when someone is attractive but the sexual urge doesn’t actually appear until I feel emotionally bonded to them. I actually wish I wasn’t like this!
Whenever I’m chatting with an “ally” and his story entails a woman who is “crazy” I ask if she was actually mentally ill or “crazy” like when you don’t treat us like respectable humans and we react accordingly?
Silence usually follows.
people really took poor communication skills and poor mental health and made it into "i dont owe anyone anything"................................ ok honey.
Jessica always looks like a Mom coming home from work, to a dirty house, and knows she's about to cook for everyone and spend her evening cleaning everything.