Only a woman can write a scene like this bec this is exactly what women do in love and hope that men do for them. To be loved is to have someone listen to the song you mentioned, or watch a movie you like. Always the little things.
First-born daughters who were raised spiritually as sons and hold genuine respect for their fathers are often capable of immense devotion in love, as they tend to be habitually perceptive and are not averse to taking accountability. What is often misunderstood is that, while they may not ask for help, they are highly sensitive to when it is proactively anticipated and provided, making them especially aware of and grateful for acts of attuned consideration.
There is sex and
There is sex WITH someone
If you only want sex, to satisfy yourself, you wouldn’t care about the partner’s desires
Which by definition is rape.
Sex WITH someone, comes from love, curiosity and the desire to connect. And that desire waits to be reciprocated.
According to feminist girls,
Sex with husband - Marital rape
Sex with ten guys before marriage - Empowerment
Simply don’t get married if you don’t want to have sex with your husband.
resemble his repressed ones. Lil more complex, but when we find in another what we've repressed yet desire, we become intensely attached, immediately. They're elevated in our minds, to a large degree. Whether or not it fades depends on how deeply they resonate with us. Some stay.
My biggest issue with how films interpret the Bhagavad Gita is how they reduce something deeply philosophical into a justification for external conflict/propaganda.
When Krishna speaks of a battlefield, it isn’t just a physical war.
The battlefield is the mind.
“उद्धरेदात्मनाऽत्मानं… आत्मैव रिपुरात्मनः” (6.5)
The self alone is the friend of the self, and the self alone is the enemy of the self.
The “enemy” is not another person/group of people/, race, class, or caste.
It is the restless mind, ignorance, ego, desire, attachment, negative thoughts.
“यतो यतो निश्चरति मनः…” (6.26)
Wherever the mind wanders, bring it back to the Self.
And dharma is not about fighting others.
Dharma is about aligning with your true nature-going beyond thought, beyond identity, into awareness.
Not a war against others but a journey within.
You want to make a film, make a film don’t use religious texts out of context to suit your narrative and propagate hate.
For those interested please read Bhagvad Gita by Parthasarathy Swamiji-
Mind (manas) = emotions, impulses, likes/dislikes
Intellect (buddhi) =discrimination, decision-making
Arjuna = the mind (confused, emotional)
Krishna = the intellect (clarity, wisdom)
The “battle” is Intellect trying to guide and discipline the mind
Exactly, being able to run errands around the house is a bare minimum requirement for any human. Whether you live alone or with someone. The problem is making it your defining criteria for wifing her up.
Are you retarded? Is she not living in the same house, eating the same food, and washing her clothes there as well? Is the house she lives in free? Are the bills paying themselves? Is the house fixing itself?
What exactly is the problem here? Is this jealousy, hatred, or what?
It seems like some of you get irritated whenever you see women who actually care for their men. But if the roles were reversed and a man was doing those things for a woman, you wouldn’t dare say this kind of nonsense.
It comes from associating cooking and cleaning with women and the assumption that we’re all running away from chores. And so a woman who does those seem like a rarity.
i regret to inform you that personal growth rarely comes from acquiring new knowledge and almost always from:
- getting humiliated
- showing up terrified and doing it anyway
- admitting you might be the problem