Not everyone's trauma gives them thick skin. Some people's trauma actually made them more sensitive and insecure, they cry more easily, get overwhelmed at small things. The narrative that trauma makes you stronger is a lie. There is, power in acknowledging it and growing from it.
Wemby spent his summer climbing mountains at 5am in the morning in the middle of China with Monks and people are still thinking that he is gonna get tired in the Finals lol