Ron Lim

coffee thoughts. mostly coffee thoughts.

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feeling this more and more as I get older

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@themaxyang ayyy thanks for grabbing a copy!

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no regrets.

only lessons learned.

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if it’s good,
it’s good

if it’s not good,
now you know

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once you start
accepting yourself
for who you are,
the only thing left for others
is to do the same

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it’s the little things.

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maybe
what I’m actually afraid of
are the things I can do
if I allow myself
to really try

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starting over is hard.

but it will be worth it once you make it through.

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it takes time to accept a situation that has hugely disrupted your life.

you may understand it logically, but your emotions need time to process.

give yourself time.

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there’s a type of people
who like to
force their agenda
on you

they will ignore you
if you don’t agree
with them

these are not your people
they will suck up all your energy
until you become
as miserable as them

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passion is attractive.

don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

if there is a fire in you, let it burn.

don't put it out just because people around you don't have the same intensity as you do.

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if there is anything
that leaving taught me,
it is that change
is more possible
than we think

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I’m starting to
let go of
the resistance
I have within myself

everything seems
so much clearer now

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are you searching
for a kind of love
from other people
that only exists
in yourself?

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if you wait for too long,
it won’t be the same anymore

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the first time is the hardest.

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one day
when I’m finally happy
I will no longer have
this resilience
I have now

it’s up to me
to make something out of it
while I still have it

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what kind of person
can I become
if I can’t show up
for the things I said
I would?

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sometimes
the best thing
you can do for yourself
is to leave