Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.
I do give up on people. You can’t continuously drain me, disappoint me and disrespect me while expecting unlimited access. I have a heart, but I also have boundaries. I can forgive, understand and give chances but I won’t keep sacrificing my peace for someone who refuses to value it. Sometimes walking away isn’t bitterness. It’s self respect.
btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here.