One of the very core skills in adulthood is realizing some shege you’ll experience is just your turn. You didn’t cause it or have a part to play, it’s just your turn and it’ll pass
You cannot rehabilitate a person that beheads a person.
You cannot rehabilitate someone that offs people for sport.
You cannot rehabilitate someone that kidnaps and rapes children.
on a serious note, let’s put all the “cheating” conversations aside for a moment. you’re in a relationship with a woman. she tells you she’s traveling and you ask her to let you know when she arrives safely. fair enough. you didn’t check on her during the journey, that’s understandable. but five hours pass and you still haven’t heard from her… and it never once crosses your mind to check up on her? not even out of concern that something might have happened? an accident, a delay, anything?
you couldn’t think, maybe she hasn’t updated me because something is wrong and reach out just to be sure she’s okay. instead, you sit there and assume she’s cheating simply because she didn’t text back. fine, let’s even accept that assumption for a second.
but then three whole days go by, three days, and you still never check on her wellbeing? nothing pushes you to ask if she’s safe, alive or even alright? and the only thing you do is reply to your own earlier message with a full stop?
if you truly weren’t busy doing something shady yourself, how does her safety not become your first concern for three entire days?
I was in public and I saw this woman buying a shit ton of eggs in front of me, she turned and looked at me and said “I don't actually like eggs, my daughters boyfriend cheated on her and I'm going to egg his car” Imaooo😂😂😭😭
Adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
DO NOT MAKE LIFE DECISIONS BASED ON YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Do not stay close to home for them, do not skip opportunities for them, do not pick a university that's close for them. They not the world! Grow yourself, expand your horizons.
People won’t humiliate me too online constantly for 5 years in the UK because I made old stupid mistake that was not intentional!!!
They won’t post my picture beside condoms and say they just finished having sex with me then tag my husband to see.
What did I do that has never been done before to deserve that humiliation?
What did I do that was so bad?
Yes I made a stupid video 5 years ago, which I accounted for, went on multiple media houses to explain myself and apologized, found the girl that didn’t even remember me anymore and apologized to her because I am a better person than most of you that have done worse in the shadows but my own “fvck up” made the public then you all started acting like you’ve never fucked up before, comedians.
I thought you deserved my apology that year but you don’t, walahi I regretted apologizing to you people because you are not better than me!!
I’m such an evil person.. okay, please show me where I have oppressed people non stop.
Show me one person that has come to attest to my wickedness in real life.
Nobody can come online to say that I did them bad, NOBODY, not when I was a teenager not now that I’m an adult.
I soaked it all in for five years, thinking maybe i deserved this humiliation, hurt myself, lost my confidence, I can’t even open twitter without my chest beating fast, went through therapy, one dimwit came online to compare me with BOKOHARAM and I chested it all without retaliation because I believed it’s the price I have to pay for what I did but NO MORE!!!
I will give my life to humiliate anyone that has humiliated me!!! I don’t care what you call me or say,I have taken it for years and I don’t want it anymore.
And this is just the beginning, I don’t have a child to worry about😂😂😂and I have money to spend so let’s keep it going.
If you like tag PUTIN, I will not take the hate I have never given out.
You don’t have to like me or my sweet husband, walahi we don’t like you too but you don’t see us talking about you people every two working days,bloody obsessive fan boys and girls.
God bless you if necessary.😂
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Terrorists have attacked one ECWA church in Kogi. They killed one person and kidnapped many christian worshippers.
This happened just few hours ago today.
The attack was at the First ECWA Church in Ayetoro Kiri, Kabba/Bunu Local Government Area of Kogi State.
This is madness.
Deep down, I genuinely want to work in a company like actually be part of a team.
I want the full experience… showing up to work, learning from people, getting corrected, laughing with teammates, building things together, and growing through real challenges.
I want to experience the process… the projects, the deadlines, the lessons, the small wins, the big wins, the company events, everything.
I want to grow in my career, and growth is something I take very seriously. When I’m not growing, I feel frustrated😩
I’m intentional about it in every area of my life: spiritually, financially, academically, and especially career-wise.
I know I have a lot to offer, and I want to give that value to a company that sees me, believes in my potential, and gives me room to evolve. I want a place where I can contribute, learn, and become better every single day.
I just want to grow and I want to grow in the right environment!
- 2026🙏🏾
I texted my husband at 10am that I received bad news about my father’s health and within 15 mins he was at my office, had already called my assistant to clear my calendar (before I could even walk to her office) and put me in the car to go to the hospital. He sat with me for 8 hours in an uncomfortable chair, he lost his entire work day including a court appearance, made sure my mom and I stayed hydrated (important), asked questions to doctors that I couldn’t think of, and never once complained.
I am sure there are millions of partners who have done the same in a loved one’s time of need but in my line of work it is easy to forget what love truly looks like.
If they want to they will.