Sis, i learned the hard way klo ga ada satu pun; gue ulangi: ga ada satu pun—baik itu janji, komitmen, karir, kecantikan, kekayaan, agama, yg mencegah laki jd brengsek. They will, if they want. It’s more important to have mitigation SOP when it happens to the best of us :((
An avoidant is a coward.
Avoidants aren’t “mysterious free spirits.”
They’re scared of intimacy, allergic to responsibility, and too fragile to own the harm they cause.
I said what I said