@soberseas im a firm believer those are NOT *romantic* partners, they cant be, not after 3 days of knowing eachothere. those are sex partners witha wish of getting romantic about the other
i thought it wasnt true that people were actually disgusted by the idea of piss in sex like it just never clicked that it wasnt all just a running bit the thing about people thinking piss was a very kinky thing but apparently myabe i just have a #pisskink
@SH0YO420@doggirljesus i dont know about op mental wellness, they said they CHOOSE to have sex with men, thats it, thats what im answering, i also understand that queernes is not JUST who you have sex with but sex is an important part of sexuality, and queernes isnt "simply" anything
@SH0YO420@doggirljesus i mean this in the least second hand comment way, pick up a book, sexuality is political, words have meanings and we need to know why things such as the queer community exist and what it means in actuality, specially if we are lgbt ourselves
@SH0YO420@doggirljesus no it isnt, being queer isnt an abstract concept or some whimsy hippie idea. sexuality, as gender, is a place in society, a contruct yes, but its how you are viewed and treated in the society we live in as well as how you exist in it, again, your material reality
@willainthewild read lgbt history, and youll know, its important that we stay concious, microlabels are damaging to our community, besides, pansexuality has explicit biphobic and transphobic origins