So many "subs" claim to like findom but actually have no idea what I means.
It's not sending money to receive nudes or a service. It's not access to every single kink in the book. Just because its part of BDSM doesn't not mean findoms specialise in femdom (yes its certainly can be part of it)
You can argue and say that new dommes only care about money and haven't got a clue. Yes that happens BUT the kink is literally having a domme have power over your finances. You have to actually get off to the fact that you are sending money to women or men and not expect anything in return. Both parties must be consenting adults. It's not a kink for horny broke men just wanting a quick want. There is subs that have literally sent millions to dommes and genuinely get off to the fact they're funding a lifestyle from them but they respect they will never meet or get anything from them.
Stop being so entitled 💸✨️