the audacity to sexualize me all day but disappear the moment I need actual emotional presence. that's not intimacy, that's leech/parasite behavior with extra steps.
The problem with these fake, wannabe “real men” is they’ll LIE to get what they want, then turn around and blame you because you couldn’t “stay down.” 😭 Sir, YOU showed me from the beginning that you couldn’t be trusted. And a man who has to manipulate, deceive, and then blame a woman for reacting to HIS actions definitely ain’t no leader. 💯 A real man leads with honesty, consistency, and accountability not lies and guilt trips.
You can’t change a man, so stop trying to. You’re not here to raise him, fix him or convince him to become the person you need. If he consistently shows you who he is, believe him. Don’t change him. Change your choice.
Ppl will fuck up so bad with you that they ain’t got a choice but to act like they hate you to other mfs😭 They even go as far as creating a delusion in their heads to convince themselves you did something wrong to them bc they know they was weird asl & they just hate to admit it
a man can be with you all day,
sleep with you all night,
tell you he loves you more than anything in this world,
and still find time to entertain the same girls he claims he doesn’t want.
PSA: MEN, PLEASE BE HONEST 🗣️💯
If you want a beautiful, loyal woman to yourself while still dealing with other women, SAY THAT from the beginning. She might agree to that arrangement, or she might walk away. Either way, THAT’S HER choice to make. You don’t get to decide she wouldn’t accept it, so you lie and take away her ability to choose. 💯
Always expect a man to betray you. Not because he’s evil, wicked, or a bad person, but because his feelings will always come first. When it comes down to you or him, expect him to choose himself. Don’t carry a man on your head and then act surprised when he puts himself first.
When God is ready for you to leave someone, He’ll let you see the side of them you needed to see all along. The disrespect gets louder. The mask slips. The patterns become undeniable. Not because God wants you bitter, but because he knows you’ll keep loving the version of them that never really existed. Sometimes the revelation is the release.
Girl… move on. He didn’t fight for you, he just liked having access to your love, your loyalty, and your softness without giving you what you deserved.
A mf will demand the truth from you, expect you to always be honest with them, while constantly lying straight to your face. That ain’t love that’s manipulation. A mf who can knowingly deceive you while demanding honesty from you is wicked as fuck. 💯
You're tricked into thinking you've found your soulmate, when actually you’ve met the person who will be the cause of some of the lowest moments of your life….that’s narcissism in a nutshell
There ain’t no bitch alive that can make me question my life or how I look 😂 I’m raw & I’m moving at my own pace… i don’t want none of you bitches life’s. I LOVE MINE
Everybody chasing what they think is better just to find out the grass isn’t greener or cheating with people who don’t even compare to the person they’re risking.