As a man,
Before you decide to marry a wife, please try to loosen the grip your mother holds on you.
Let your mother know where your priority would lie, and stand by it.
Your mother is your father's wife.
Respect & honor her, but protect your wife from her and vice versa.
Your matrimonial home is your wife's territory.
If you don't loosen the grip, your mother will encroach on it.
AJD.
Dear young people that are already doing 9-5 in your 20s.
Please strive to attain some high level of financial freedom & independence before you get into your 40s.
As long as you're not greedy or too money conscious, you investment would keep you afloat.
I do not think that someone in his or her 50s, should be doing a 9-5.
But we have them.
I may also be one, too.
Knowing what I know now, this is what I can advice you.
9-5 is glorified slavery.
End.
Fact: The man in the fourth frame has the most loyal, intelligent, unbiased and brutally honest fanbase on this app. Period. Quality over every other metric.
Second frame guy comes distant next. Loyal yes, but the majority are gullible clowns who swallow anything while a chunk only stan because they smell money (raise am).
Third frame has raw strength in numbers, strong fanbase no doubt, but loyalty is shaky. Too many seasonal jumpers and fair-weather soldiers ready to bounce the moment the vibe shifts.
First frame dude is the current loudest topic, sure, but let’s be real: his crowd is 90% opportunists and impression farmers. They flock for the river of views, likes and clout, not for the man himself. Once the wave dies, they vanish like smoke.
No cap. That’s the street-level truth.
@jon_d_doe@6819Terence A hearty congratulations to you Sir Terence @6819Terence, may your marriage continue to experience peace and stability.
May God give you and your lovely wife long life in sound health of body and mind, and may you both enjoy the fruits of your labour.
Happy anniversary Sir.
@jon_d_doe In my place, the woman who got married into the family first, happens to be the most senior wife.
A traditional rite MUST be performed at the groom's family compound on the EVE of the MARRIAGE DAY, that automatically places the bride in that position.
@jon_d_doe He should let it go, he didn't lose anything.
Just an investment that would have made him a lot of money.
The price of the shares could have also drop drastically.
His land is still there, which has also appreciated, and could give him a good deal anytime