the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it’s called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.
I can’t stress this enough. GET OUT OF YOUR HOMETOWN. Even if it’s not forever. Move. Travel. See the world. There is more to life than the same 10 people and the same 2 bars.
I hate the idea of ex girlfriends. I have never stopping loving any woman even after breaking up with them. Girls should be something you collect slowly one by one. I just want to keep them all in a big castle together. I wish they could all just get along. They could be so happy
The goal isn't to become emotionless, it is to embrace every emotion while mastering self control.
Feel deeply, but choose which emotions to act on.
True growth lies in balance, not suppression.
I love Kenya bro
I love the food, the night life, I love partying, having a good time is so easy here, when we elect a better government I'm never leaving again
Third world countries love unnecessary conferences and summits to solve absolutely nothing.
Always forming unserious "multi-sectoral" task force to come up with "new" policies/ framework.
That is what Ruto is wasting our time with.
Women will attend these things, network with the bosses outside the work setting. Find out sth like they have the same dog breed. Kidogo, they share dog parent tips with each other. When it's time for promotion, guess who will be given?Men need to lean in to soft skills or perish
Believe me: Life gets a lot better when you stop treating every inconvenience like it's the end of the world. Most things aren't "ruining your day" unless you decide they are.