People will literally say or do whatever they need to just to get what they want from you. But as soon as you give, they are gone after the slightest inconvenience. We must listen to people when they tell us who they are up front.
Life is rough and we all handle it differently. It’s perfectly ok if someone decides that they don’t have the capacity for you in theirs at the moment. But in no way does that mean you have to be available when they finally open up space.
Black man. Something’s to remember:
1. Focus on your goals.
2. Stop letting people know your next move before it happens.
3. Show some discernment in who you give your time and energy to.
4. Don’t ignore red flags and don’t be the bull that charges at them.
Look back over the time you were in the hole and trying to claw yourself back out of it. Remember that feeling so you don’t get back there. But also, take attendance of who was still with you.
Just deleted a bunch of contacts and I don’t really care how recent I may have talked to them. Once you realize everybody can’t go with you into this next chapter, especially if they had no contributions in the previous ones, It’s rather easy.