20 rules for young men:
1. Never date a friend’s ex
2. It’s ok to go to the movies by yourself
3. Hygiene is more important than you think
4. Know the different between love and lust
5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep
6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about your dreams and goals
7. Study the types of people who upset you and why
8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.
9. Don’t bully people weaker than you
10. Learn how to tell stories
11. Don’t complain. 80% of people don’t care about your problems and 20% are glad you have them
12. Be impressed by the things that matter
13. When coming across a successful person, talk less, ask more.
14. Leave a lasting impression after people meet you
15. Don’t feel guilty for being too ambitious
16. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones at some point of your life.
17. Always have some cash with you
18. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best.
19. Avoid porn at all cost.
20. You never marry a girl, you marry her entire family.
🌍⚽🎵 TOP 15 MOST FAMOUS FIFA WORLD CUP SONGS
① 🇿🇦 Waka Waka (2010)
🎤 Shakira & Freshlyground
② 🇫🇷 The Cup of Life (1998)
🎤 Ricky Martin
③ 🇿🇦 Wavin' Flag (2010)
🎤 K'naan
④ 🇧🇷 We Are One (Ole Ola) (2014)
🎤 Pitbull, Jennifer Lopez & Claudia Leitte
⑤ 🇶🇦 Dreamers (2022)
🎤 Jung Kook
⑥ 🇷🇺 Live It Up (2018)
🎤 Nicky Jam, Will Smith & Era Istrefi
⑦ 🇧🇷 La La La (Brazil 2014)
🎤 Shakira
⑧ 🇩🇪 Hips Don't Lie (Bamboo Remix) (2006)
🎤 Shakira & Wyclef Jean
⑨ 🇮🇹 Un'estate Italiana (To Be Number One) (1990)
🎤 Gianna Nannini & Edoardo Bennato
⑩ 🇺🇸 Gloryland (1994)
🎤 Daryl Hall & Sounds of Blackness
⑪ 🇰🇷🇯🇵 Boom (2002)
🎤 Anastacia
⑫ 🇩🇪 The Time of Our Lives (2006)
🎤 Toni Braxton & Il Divo
⑬ 🇿🇦 Sign of a Victory (2010)
🎤 R. Kelly
⑭ 🇧🇷 Dar um Jeito (We Will Find a Way) (2014)
🎤 Carlos Santana, Wyclef Jean & Avicii
⑮ 🇲🇽🇺🇸🇨🇦 Dai Dai (2026)
🎤 Shakira & Burna Boy
How to quit Masturbation?
👉 Genuinely repent from it. Confess it to God in prayers. Ask for forgiveness and mercy.
👉 Deal with the root cause. Quit pornography. Avoid unnecessary isolation and idleness. Stop late-night scrolling. End ungodly friendships. Identify what repeatedly leads you into másturbation and intentionally cut it off.
👉 Fill your heart daily with Scripture, prayer, and godly teachings. As God's truth renews your mind, ungodly desires lose their power and your desire to please Him grows stronger.
👉 Don't fight alone. Find a mature Christian, mentor, pastor, or trusted believer who can encourage you, pray with you, and help you stay committed to purity. One will chase a thousand, two will chase how many? 🧏🔥
👉 Guard your eyes, ears, and mind. Be intentional about what you watch, read, listen to, and follow online. What constantly enters your heart will influence your actions.
👉 Depend on God's grace daily. Don't ever get to a point in your life where you think you can do it on your own. The arm of flesh will fail you.
God has helped many.
He will help you too.
SEXUAL PURITY PAYS. 🤍💡
|
BODY LANGUAGE TRICKS
1. POSTURE
Walk with your shoulders back and chin up. Stand tall. Be proud. Be super-conscious of your stance.
2. FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
Consciously smile. This will create a warmth about you and people will want to talk to you.
3. VOICE
Don't speak too softly. Use varied intonation to sound more engaging and dynamic.
4. HANDS
Use purposeful hand movements to reinforce your points and communicate energy.
5. EYES
Maintain direct eye contact when you introduce yourself and while the person is talking to you.
7 SIGNS OF FAKE LOVE
1) What they say and what they do are different.
2) You are the one doing most of the work in the relationship.
3) They don't show that they care about you.
4) They don't introduce you to their family and friends.
5) You don't share emotions.
6) They don't treat you with respect.
7) They don't appreciate you.
BEFORE YOU MARRY A WOMAN, PAY ATTENTION TO THESE THINGS
1. How she treats her family.
2. How she handles conflict.
3. How she spends money.
4. How she talks about her exes.
5. How she reacts when she doesn't get her way.
6. How she behaves when she's angry.
7. How she treats people who can't help her.
8. How she acts when nobody is watching.
Dating shows you her highlights.
Time reveals her habits.
LUST vs LOVE
LUST:
1. Based on physical attraction
2. Driven by passion
3. Surface-level emotions
4. Short-lived
5. Fantasizing about the person
6. Insecurity and jealousy
7. Focus on self-gratification
8. Avoiding deep conversations
9. Intensity that declines
10. Craves attention more than connection
11. Seeks validation through desire
12. Feeds on excitement, not stability
LOVE:
1. Based on emotional connection
2. Driven by compassion
3. Deep, genuine emotions
4. Long-lasting
5. Appreciating the whole person
6. Trust and acceptance
7. Focus on mutual growth
8. Open and honest communication
9. Intimacy that endures
10. Values peace over thrill
11. Encourages vulnerability and healing
12. Grows stronger through challenges
KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BROO
9 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT WOMEN
1) She gets more attracted when you stay mysterious instead of trying to be funny all the time.
2) She starts missing you when you give her some space and your sex life improves.
3) She loses respect for a man who puts her above himself.
4) She will play the victim even when the mistake is clearly hers.
5) She can be much freakier in bed than shy women appear on the outside.
6) She cares about your appearance mainly because of what it signals about your status and confidence.
7) She gets annoyed by men who constantly seek her approval.
8) She sees your good intentions as overcompensation for insecurity or weak manipulation.
9) She is never attracted to a man who cannot control the situation.
𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 An OLDER 30+ WOMAN 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞!
A young man tying the knot with a woman old enough to be his mother might seem like "love conquers all" in the moment — but biology, scripture, and basic life reality say otherwise.
𝟏. 𝐁𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐲 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧'𝐭 𝐋𝐢𝐞
Women reach peak fertility in their early to mid-20s. By the time a woman is in her mother's age bracket (typically 40s–50s+), natural conception rates drop sharply due to declining egg quality and quantity. Studies show fertility plummets after 35, with risks of miscarriage, chromosomal abnormalities (like Down syndrome), and complications rising steeply. Even with IVF, success rates for older women are low, and health risks to both mother and child increase significantly.
A man in his prime reproductive years pairing with a much older woman often means limited or no biological children of their own — one of the core purposes of marriage in traditional societies. Energy levels, physical compatibility, and long-term caregiving dynamics also shift: the younger partner may end up as caregiver far earlier than expected.
𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭 𝐔𝐧𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠
2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV): "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
"While this primarily addresses faith, the principle of unequal yoking extends to vast age gaps that create imbalance in maturity, life stage, health, and future plans. Proverbs 5 and Song of Solomon celebrate joyful, age-appropriate marital passion and fruitfulness — not arrangements that defy natural generational order.
𝟑. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧
The Quran promotes marriage for tranquility, mutual support, and raising righteous families (Surah Ar-Rum 30:21): "And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought."
It also stresses protecting lineage and healthy progeny. Vast age disparities often undermine the balanced companionship intended, as the older partner's declining health and reproductive window clash with the younger's prime years. Islamic teachings on marriage favor compatibility in age, background, and life goals to sustain harmony.
𝐁𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐨𝐦 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐞
"Love" that ignores biological reality, generational wisdom, and scriptural principles rarely ends well. Marriage isn't just about today, it's about building a stable legacy, shared seasons of life, and avoiding unnecessary hardship. Choosing a partner closer in age honors nature, faith, and long-term flourishing.
What do you think? Share your thoughts below 👇👇👇
U this idiot. When u made several derogatory and inflamatary comments on "X" didn't u also think u were also untouchable?! U are just a tribalistic bigot and an hypocrite.
VDM is starting to think he’s untouchable. There are recent examples right in front of him if he cares to look.
He wasn’t half as powerful or influential as Zakzaky when he was arrested, and heaven didn’t fall.
Nnamdi Kanu is still rotting in prison as I type this. Lessons
10 Biblical Ways to Overcome Lust, Masturbation, and Pornography
1. Run from temptation, don't negotiate with it.
"Flee from sexual immorality."
— 1 Corinthians 6:18
2. Renew your mind daily with God's Word.
What fills your mind will eventually shape your desires.
— Romans 12:2
3. Guard your eyes intentionally.
Job said, "I have made a covenant with my eyes..." (Job 31:1)
4. Pray for a changed heart, not just more self-control.
Ask God to transform your desires, not merely suppress them.
— Psalm 51:10
5. Confess your struggles to a trusted believer.
Freedom grows in the light; sin thrives in secrecy.
— James 5:16
6. Remove access to temptation.
Block websites, delete apps, and avoid environments that trigger you.
— Matthew 5:29-30 (the principle of radical action against sin)
7. Walk in the Spirit daily.
The more you yield to the Spirit, the less power sinful desires have over you.
— Galatians 5:16
8. Fill your life with godly pursuits.
Don't just stop a bad habit, replace it with worship, service, prayer, and purposeful living.
— Philippians 4:8
9. Get up quickly after a fall.
Don't let guilt keep you away from God. Repent, receive His mercy, and keep moving forward.
— Proverbs 24:16
10. Remember your identity in Christ.
You are not defined by your temptations or past failures. You belong to Christ and have been called to live in freedom.
— 2 Corinthians 5:17
Freedom is usually not one dramatic breakthrough. It is a thousand small acts of obedience empowered by God's grace. Stay close to Jesus, and keep taking the next right step.
1. To learn how to sit, crawl, walk and speak
2. To learn how to go to school, suffer learn how to read and write from kindergarten to university.
3. To suffer look for a job after graduation
4. To suffer look for money to eat, build/rent/buy a house.
5. To suffer look for who will love you enough to marry you. Luckily you marry a good person; badly, you marry a bad person
6. To suffer start all over again by training your kids from where you start from.
7. Then you become old, you can go out or work.
8. Then you wait for death to come and carry you.
9. Then you finally d!Ed
10. The end of the story!!!!
A lot of people are still in numbers 3, 4 and 5 unfortunately.
HeartMattaz