If you have been wondering where and how Vic met her man Black Coffee ,here’s goes : in her speech Victoria won the hearts of many South Africans when she honoured her man Nathi Maphumulo
“ The first time I met Nathi was back in 2018, I was out for dinner with friends. I had absolutely no idea who he was, and honestly …I’m very happy about that because I didn’t see the fame or the Legend. I simply saw a man who made me laugh , a man with confidence and a man with incredible style. But looking back, I now realise that it was a gift because I got to meet Nathi before I met Black Coffee. Sometimes the most important moments in life arrive quietly..no big announcements not dramatic , just 2people crossing paths without realising their lives are about to change forever.
When I was young, as a little girl I remember looking up in the sky in my village . I didn’t ask for much, I didn’t ask for success, and I didn’t ask for fame. I asked for one thing..someone to love me exactly the way I am. And sometimes I think about the possibility under the same sky that a certain young boy may be asking for the exact same thing…and that was you. Because when 2people are meant to find each other, something extraordinary happens “ #nathiturns50 #blackcoffee
Always remember exactly who stood beside you during those hard times. When everything felt heavy and it seemed like you were facing it alone, there were still a few who stayed. Well done My Sol. 🙆🏽♂️👏
I feel sorry for Black Coffee, but let this be a lesson to everyone who wants to get married.
Coffee paid amalobolo, which the court interpreted as the official start date of their customary marriage.
The court invalidated the pre-nup they signed later & stated that Enhle Mbali Mlotshwa was misled & lacked legal advice.
Thus, their marriage is automatically deemed customary, meaning they were married in community of property & she's entitled to spousal maintenance.
Note: as soon as you pay even R100 in ilobolo, the courts deem you married customarily AND automatically in community of property.
The fact that courts can also override pre-nups (ante-nuptial contracts), means that those with them are no longer automatically protected.
Nisenjeni basically. Shadani kodwa bafwethu... angeke sinidlele umona ✌🏽