according to the recent trend, yeah?
i swear on my life (in imam’s voice🤣), arewa women are lowkey the biggest enablers of this slave mentality, because 90% of these arewa men will not survive outside africa with their mentality.
My arewa people will not kill me o. 😂
"In dai gida da akwai tarbiya me zai kai uba kitchen?"
Your household's way of living is not the standard of tarbiya in islam please.
My biggest fear is getting married and my life doesn’t get significantly better than when I was single. There’s absolutely no reason why i should get married and look back and say those were “good times”.
“O you who believe! Stand firm for justice, as witnesses for Allah, even if it is against yourselves, or your parents, or your relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So do not follow your desires, lest you swerve from justice. And if you distort your testimony or refuse to give it, surely Allah is All-Aware of what you do.”
– Qur’an 4:135
If you like don’t do justice to people because of your loved ones!
Slowly, you started praying on time.
Slowly, you began fasting on Mondays and Thursdays.
Slowly, Tahaiiud and Duha became part of your routine.
Slowly, you became more careful with your words.
“My parents used to beat me so much, and I wasn’t even allowed to express myself, but I turned out okay.” I promise you, you didn’t. You’re on social media insulting people, creating chaos, and fighting people simply because they have opinions different from yours😭