i hate that i always run into ppl that feel the need to try to humble me. like damn eb be jealous or intimidated by me & ion do shit but be comfortable in my own skin..
People with high standards are harder to impress. They have absolutely NO desire to be seen, validated, or understood. They cut people off at the slightest sign of envy, jealousy, or disrespect. They don't leave angry. They leave quiet. And quiet is the most permanent exit.
Cutting people off isn't always about hate. Sometimes it's about recognizing the shade disguised as jokes, the jealousy behind the sarcasm, the lack of loyalty, the two-faced behavior, and the people who constantly drain your energy. Protect your peace and walk away.
I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. This can be family, friends, associates- whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can’t unsee it.
I told my male doctor the pain during sex had gotten so bad I was avoiding intimacy. He told me to “relax more” and that most women just need to “get out of their heads.” I asked if he’d ever told a male patient with erectile dysfunction to just relax and stop overthinking. He looked at his chart. I got a new doctor the next week. Turns out I had a condition that required actual treatment.
If someone has the courage to speak behind your back but does not have to courage to have the conversation with you. That person has always had animosity towards you and you should not take it personally. It’s a reflection of them and how they perceive themselves.