People who spend long periods of time at home and slowly lose the desire to go outside often think they're just resting. But psychologically, many of them are experiencing something called mental rumination. It's a state where the brain starts slowing down while the number of thoughts inside keeps increasing and the motivation to do anything slowly disappears. The mind gets stuck in the past, worries about the future and burns itself out. This isn't laziness, it's a nervous system stuck in survival mode. And the longer it lasts, the more distant normal life begins to feel. And the difficult part is that you usually can't escape it through one massive burst of motivation. And sometimes,recovery starts with just one small step.
i loOoOovee being called 'sayang'. like it's the softest, prettiest and sweetest word 'iyaa sayang' 'sayangkuuu' 'kenapa sayang?' literally just a word, but it makes me feel so loved. ๐ค๐ค
@sapphicsfess first meet ldr beda negara 15 jam dia took flight buat ketemu aku, 10 hari bareng terus, nempel terus ahhh pas balik dia ke negaranya nangis banget ๐ญ
semoga tahun ini soon bisa jumpa lagi, kangen bgt, vc all the time bikin bosen ๐ญ๐๐ซ
@Ibupkkcerewet aku guru preschool jadi paham pola dan perilaku anak, ga sedikit ortu curhat ttg anaknya.
jadi jangan disalahin anak, karena di umur segitu mereka belum bisa memilih dan mengetahui benar2 apa yg mereka sukai.
lebih baik sediakan sesuai porsinya. aman.
@Ibupkkcerewet anak 4,3 tahun belum bisa sepenuhnya memilih apa yg dia inginkan, dan baiknya jangan sering dikasih pilihan. sbg org tua seharusnya sudah tau anaknya suka dan doyan makan apa, sediakan aja di kotak bekalnya. perihal dia makan atau engga yasudah yg penting tugas ortu menyediakan