@ZssBecker I don't feel like it has to be a totally binary choice. I agree that it's important to stay focused on your career when you're young, but you can also, you know, see your family and go outside.
@ZssBecker Knocking someone up isn't an achievement, but raising your kids to be good/successful people absolutely is, and there are no re-dos if you mess up.
I think everyone who can have kids should (I have two), but I'm not going to try to berate anyone into it.