Sometimes your growth feels threatening to other people. Not because they don’t want you to be well, but because they love the version of you that served them more than they could ever love the fullness of who you are and who you’re becoming.
I think consideration is a love language. When a person thinks about your feelings before making decisions, pays attention to little details, and goes the extra mile to make life a little easier for you – that's when you can simply see how much a person truly cares about you.
Intimacy isn't only about sex. It's having heart to hearts, going on dates, dancing, sharing your childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams and hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching—it's exchanging energy.
At this age, you have to think long term.
Focus on your career goals. Save money. Find someone who you can pray and hustle with. We can no longer afford to waste time. Focus on things that matter in the long run. Stability.
Loyalty. Peace of Mind.
A good connection can be ruined over the simple fact you miscommunicated, or chose to not communicate at all. A good connection can be easily lost, because you chose to ghost instead of speaking on your fears, feelings, and intentions. Just think about that.