You can be a really good person but poor in relationship skills.
Knowing and loving the partner and accepting them as they are and then being able to communicate this is a skill.
Also I have to shoutout my baby @ryeannnn_ we use to be on the phone 24/8 lol and she would coach me sometimes and I’d be so scared to open my mouth to sing so she’s definitely another person who has been there from jump and knows the voice that I was then to now!