I'm looking for a good paying nursing job,
Location: Lagos
If accommodation is present fine, if not, I'm still interested.
Ready to resume by July
Help me out here
approaching a man as a woman is a great way to get a man who doesn’t actually like you but is happy using you for as long as you’ll allow lmao
it’s also a great way to get a man too cowardly and unassertive to approach women he actually likes (horrible to date and live life with)
“Low effort friends,” meanwhile the whole time they may be at rock bottom, fighting for their lives, but still forcing themselves to show up because they don’t want to be those friends who always ruin plans or make excuses.
I have said it before: money makes you a better friend, partner, sibling, parent, colleague, etc. When you don’t have money, you cannot bring your thoughts to life. You turn down invites from friends to avoid embarrassment, and lowkey they begin to think you don’t like them like that.
Okay, then you decide to show up with the little you have, probably because your friends insisted that it doesn’t matter and they understand your condition. But you get there and realize everyone came correct, and suddenly you begin to feel small. You start overthinking everything; how you look, what you wore, what you ordered, what you could or couldn’t contribute.
I know we are all assuming because we do not know these people’s stories. However, it is not nice to label strangers “low effort friends” just from a video they made and posted themselves.
Also, if you are not liquid enough to comfortably show up for an event or gathering like this, I strongly advise that you don’t show up tbh. They will still see you as a bad or low effort friend anyway. But they’ll be alright. Only you truly know your story, your struggles, and how hard you are trying to stay afloat.
this is one of the reasons i always feel long distance relationships creates the best lovers fr.. the moment you can take intimacy off the table & they still fill that void in you, offer you value, without being blinded by lust or inordinate affections, now that’s your person.