I don't know if it's because I'm her first gf, but sometimes I feel like she has such low bars for me. I brought home salt today and she practically threw herself at me. ๐ ๐ฅฐ
#wlw#saltbae
Sometimes polyamory is living with contradictions of emotion.
like having the simultaneous thoughts: * I can't help being jealous, I'm afraid she's going to leave me, things keep changing!* * sniff* *They are really cute together though* โค๏ธ
#polyamory#jealousy#newmeta
Possible polyamory love affirmations:
- I've never loved anyone like I love you
- You're so incredibly special to me
- My love for you is one of a kind
- The live we share is incredibly unique
- You've changed my life forever
- You are a light in my life
- you make me so happy
Three tips for communicating through the hard bits of non monogamy:
1. Do lots of your self-work first
2. Find time, energy and privacy for conversations (especially important for non monogamous parents)
3. Assume the best intent in your partner
One of the first signs I've noticed that I'm entering a low is that I lose the motivation to brush my teeth -- so now every time I brush my teeth, in my head it goes, "see, you're not depressed"
woah, so I just learned my dad and his wife have "special relationships" where they sometimes have threesomes. I told my dad that I'm poly & now he wants me to talk to my 15yo sister who thinks he's a cheater.. but I think he did break a boundary ... and woah ๐คฏ#needtoprocess
Had a really lovely night with my husband tonight at medieval times. Our knight lost after he turned evil, damn that plot armor. Think I might've lost my voice from cheering. ๐ปโ๏ธ๐ก๏ธ
Missing my girlfriend as she attends a wedding across the country with her husband. โค๏ธ
So my manic times usually manifests as art manic or cleaning manic.. lately, I've been cleaning manic, which is why I've been quiet
I have a theory that I art manic is a reaction to me feeling stifled and cleaning manic happens during a time I feel like I'm lacking control.
One of my love languages is applying a/b testing to tend to needs my partners don't know they have yet.
Ex. My husband gets sleepy around 4pm and often naps, every other day I've been giving him veggie snacks at 1 to see if it helps his energy levels.
๐คโค๏ธ #LoveAnAnalyst