@NAJohnson@zunzetrider not a central symptom Also BPD doesn’t always come from being horrifically neglected your entire childhood.
It can come from abuse , trauma , neglect and invalidation I developed it despite my childhood being far from “horrifically neglected” due to invalidation outside of home.
@rottngs Depends on what you do I game and watch movies and chat a bunch used to have a monitor for each now I’m at two since my third died I just alt tab so so so much where before I never had to.
3 is useful tbh but not as useful as a second it’s like a luxury.
@viafication the only people who have issues with this are insecure people , people who have had traumatic experiences and people who aren't mature tbh.
@ViperlL7@foxwounds@madbaddo Starts with one friend than another then another next thing you know you only have your partner.
Then you have no support network and are completely isolated.
Would not recommend if a partner is insecure about one’s friends they should deal with that themselves.
@Zepherl@m__x__u I never understood the it will fail or just find someone irl it’s useless argument when 90% of relationships I have seen irl do the same and if you fall for someone why pass them up like tf?
People just hate people finding love I am convinced and are jealous
@l_u_n_a13 Yup which makes 0 sense to me tbh.
When people i care about aren't find and pretend they are it makes me so uncomfortable to the point i have had to stop talking to people due to it.
Can't fathom how anyone can feel uncomfy at ppl not being fine.
@Particu26569451@gnosiaenjoyer@PYeerk Talked to a few people about it and It’s likely a country / state specific thing tbh since cultural norms differ country to country and even state to state.
I can’t fathom that haha but I guess the world is large
@gnosiaenjoyer@PYeerk Yeah talking to strangers in public has even before i was born been considered rude unless in a social area / situation.
Like leave people alone lol but then again i guess it may also depend where you live country / state etc as social norms change place to place.
@Particu26569451@gnosiaenjoyer@PYeerk It was rude even back then? Like it's not in social situations and places but randomly in public is considered rude generally it always has even when my parents were young lol