Communication is not arguing. Somebody telling you what they need is not arguing. Somebody telling you to do more so they feel loved by you is not arguing. Somebody telling you how you hurt them is not arguing. Hearing what you don't want to hear is not arguing! Speaking on what bothers them is not arguing... You learn to communicate when you actually and truly care✍🏾
i think a constant theme in my life is to be more self-centered. every time I don’t put pouring into me first I’m shown why that was an awful decision.
i'm sorry but sex will never be enough just for me to stick around. I need my soul fed. Spiritual growth. Deep conversations. Genuine effort. Emotional intelligence. Consistency.