My main PRIORITY & focus is MY KID! nothing comes before my kid, everything stops for my kid & most importantly my kid comes before a Job, family , a man anything it’s always my KID for me!
Real nggas don’t live double lives. They say who they fw, how they fw them, and let the cards fall where they may. If you gotta lie, sneak, and manipulate just to keep access… you not real, you just scared of consequences.
BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT, I used to wonder why so many families fell apart after having a baby. Now I realize, it's because a lot of men don't understand how much a woman goes through mentally, physically, and emotionally. We face so many changes within ourselves, yet we're STILL expected to be the same person during and after birth. It takes real communication and constant
REASSURANCE to keep love strong. Men need to learn how to grow with the woman she's becoming, and be PATIENT with her.