@wearyemoji seems cis women also struggle to feel like they're "real women" because of how fucked up the framework for them is in the first place, obviously in different ways because "proving it" is.
ykw some people refuse objective proof that someone's a woman anyway this is a fucking mess
@wearyemoji anyway i'm on a rocky road there myself because of how much the feedback i get changes from day to day (as well as whether it's positive or not) but some days it feels like all i need is electrolysis and then it's off to the races
and others i feel so inconceivably yucky...