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Dare I argue that this kind of mindset is bordering on shirk?
Muslim women do not wear their hijab for men, we wear it as it is a command from Allah.
It’s important that we de-centre Muslim men from Muslim women’s worship.
DON’T JOKE WITH THIS DUA: Ya Allah when the day of Arafah ends, let me wake up as someone different. Cleaner. Peaceful. Closer to You. Please Don’t let this be just another day I wasted. Let it be the day that changed my eternity
Not a parent, but I do feel like I've watched one example of this in real time working in childcare:
-Child struggles with something
-Parent immediately swoops in and helps, despite the kid not even asking for help
-Next time the kid doesn't struggle as long, and just looks to the parent to fix it
This often happens with things kids SHOULD struggle through (holding chalk, getting dolls' clothes on, building blocks) that kids need to learn for developmental reasons
It feeds the parent's ego because they get to save the day, but over time the kid learns not to even try to solve their own problems, and that their success is someone else's responsibility
The parents who tell their kids "You don't need me, you've got this" end up with the grittier kids
please marry a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you gifts, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can. You deserve all of that.
The best husband is the one who…
• Treats his wife with noble character and beautiful manners.
• Never neglects her rights or belittles her needs.
• Guards his gaze and heart for her alone.
• Learns and lives by Islam, and lovingly teaches her too.
• Stands by her side in moments of hardship and distress.
• Controls his anger, even when his feelings are hurt.
• Appreciates her, overlooking small mistakes with forgiveness.
• Shares the household duties, instead of leaving them all to her.
• Strives to raise their children upon Islamic values and morals.
May Allah grant all sisters in Islam husbands who protect, cherish, and care for them. And may He grant our brothers the strength and sincerity to fulfill these beautiful qualities. Ameen.
I agree with you that none of your sons should marry them, they deserve way better than your sons tbh. They deserve to be married into good families where they are loved, accepted, and respected— not a family like yours.
Married him when he lost his job, was at 0 and I was going to leave my job too. As soon as our nikah was done, Allah blessed him with a job, us with a child and barakah in rizq.
That’s the beauty of tawakkul and nikah for the sake of Allah.
As a man,
Before you decide to marry a wife, please try to loosen the grip your mother holds on you.
Let your mother know where your priority would lie, and stand by it.
Your mother is your father's wife.
Respect & honor her, but protect your wife from her and vice versa.
Your matrimonial home is your wife's territory.
If you don't loosen the grip, your mother will encroach on it.
AJD.
All the FOUR daughters of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wassalam had to return back to their father's house at some point in their marriages, He welcomed them back with open arms, listened to their plights and resolved it.
My husband hugged me from behind and said "thank you so much for everything you did today." Then kissed me. My toddler then walked up, hugged me from behind and said "thank you for making me soup mama." Then kissed my arm. YOUR CHILDREN SEE EVERYTHING.
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We were at a family gathering and someone made one of those tired jokes like, “Enjoy it now, marriage changes everything.”
Before I could even react, my husband smiled and said, “Yeah, it does change everything. It makes it better.”
The room went quiet for a second.
He added, “I don’t feel trapped. I feel chosen. Every day I wake up knowing I get to do life with the love of my life. That’s not a loss—that’s a blessing.”
I just stood there pretending to focus on my plate because my eyes were starting to water.
People love to talk about marriage like it’s the end of freedom.
But the way he talks about it? Like it’s the greatest decision he ever made.
And that means everything to me.