taking care of your girl has nothing to do with with the materialistic things. make her feel wanted, loved, and cared for. remind her you cherish her even when she feel the opposite , listen to her
Safe relationships don’t always feel good. You will be in tears with each other having tough conversations—and facing the wounded parts of yourself. Safe relationships just won’t weaponize or shame those parts of you.
Manipulation is when they always mess with your mind by blaming you for reacting to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.