One thing I love about God is, He will bring you out of the situation you got yourself into, and He will never hold it against you. I weep because His love is that pure. 😭😭
Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
There is something beautiful about having long term friends that have witnessed multiple versions of you and loved you unconditionally through each version.
i saw a quote that said, "if you don't clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that's realest shit ever.
ppl lack of accountability then say, “u could’ve talked to me” no, i couldn’t. u don’t listen. u deflect. u twist everything into an attack and then play victim. conversations with u aren’t healing, they’re exhausting. and honestly, i don’t owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand
People will run with the narrative that you cut them off for one particular thing instead of admitting they are problematic people and the last thing they did was just your the LAST straw 🥱
I don’t care how sneaky you think you are, how long you got away with it, or how manipulative you are. The Lord will not let you play around & backstab solid people. You reap what you sow.
I asked for better… and that’s why everything around me is changing. People I thought were solid don’t fit my life anymore. Habits I used to love feel pointless. The old conversations don’t move me, the old circles don’t impress me, and the old distractions can’t reach me.