Dismissive avoidants don't want to fix things. They want to keep you in a cycle where they can do whatever they want, then make you the problem when you speak up for yourself.
He think he got options, but really he got cycles. Same behavior, different women. Psychologically, that's a pattern of self-sabotage. Spiritually, God will let him repeat it until it breaks him.
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
It saddens me that so many people have gone through an avoidant discard. It’s not a normal breakup, it’s fundamentally one of the most traumatizing things you can experience.