bf showed me a song and it’s become one of my favorite songs and rn he’s doing our laundry and playing music so i requested it and he’s singing very quietly and i think im going to literally pass away any moment, luckiest queer in town lemme tell ya
People have learned a few psychological buzzwords on social media,like "gaslighting," "narcissist," "boundaries," and "toxic", and now they use them to run away from normal human conflict. Sometimes your partner isn't a "toxic narcissist violating your boundaries"; sometimes they are just annoyed, having a bad day, and you are actually the one who was wrong. We have weaponized therapy language to ensure we never have to apologize or compromise.