@scoopsbyler i said no to one of my couples and i think 2-3 weeks later they asked again. but in the meantime maybe try to keep their status high in soulmate or super in love? i heard that helps
@lynbugxo also SO many people end up realizing new things about themselves, so even if they went by a label since 16 yrs old that doesn’t mean that label IS their true self, they might learn who they actually are at 30
@lynbugxo i’m a big fan of choosing to be unlabeled instead of forcing yourself into one box too early on, i say just let yourself fall for who you fall for and nothing else matters <3