Can’t lie to you. If you don’t make a move, you will see literal clowns race past you. Clowns.
Nothing concern life with ‘I am a smart, educated, experienced person’.
You don’t act, you remain there.
Neuroplasticity has a “use it or lose it” rule. If the addictive circuit goes unused long enough, it loses myelin efficiency, making it slower and weaker. Every day clean is not just a win, it’s making the old habit biologically harder to execute.
A mentor once told me this: Reduce the amplitude of the wave. Never get too high on the wins. Never get too low on the losses. Emotional stability is the real cheat code for adapting to the inevitable uncertainty of life.
If your heart has chosen a mountain, climb it with your whole soul. Bleed if you must. Rest when you need to. Learn when you stumble. But never negotiate with the voice that tells you to settle. One day, the life you prayed for will quietly become the life you live.
someone once told me “emotional intelligence is the discipline of sitting with a feeling long enough to understand it before you hand it to someone else” and that honestly changed how i move.
Our fathers weren't stupid for leaving the house even when jobless. When it's bleak & you find yourself without means, go out there anyway. Go to where the fight is. See people doing it: you become convinced you too can do it. You get courage. You ask questions. Go out there!
Noticed a lot of Kenyans are avoiding eye contact, because currently it means submission or approval. You look at a nduthi guy, ashapiga start, look at a shawty she assumes you want her, look at the teacher they ask you a question, look at the police they'll suspect you
Gustavo Fring was right, if you have a problem that means it can be solved. If it cannot be solved then it is not a problem. It is a reality to be accepted.