I like being the way I am, a little distant from everyone, direct when necessary, with a serious face, I don't talk to just anyone, nor do I try to fit in where I don't want to be, and the truth is I am calm and at peace like this
Ngl sometimes i feel so weird explaining to someone how inconsiderate they were in a situation. It's like if you didn't feel yourself being outta pocket i don’t know what's left to say. real is rare and when it's in you it feels so wrong to explain.
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
If I could give you one piece of advice it would be to learn to be alone. Don't rely on ppl for happiness, knowledge, or approval. Ppl are going to fold so give yourself time to understand who you are & what you love. Don't force relationships or situations.