10/10 parenting. I will die on the hill that supporting young adults and staying right there with them as they climb into adulthood is one of the most important things you will ever, ever do as a parent.
we romanticized being detached because admitting "l really fucking love you and losing you would hurt me" requires a type of gangster this generation doesn't respect enough
my psychiatrist: "so I just want to acknowledge before, when you said you were doing nothing with your life - you just earned a master's degree 3 months ago"
me: "yeah but any idiot can get a master's degree"
my psychiatrist (sighing): "no."
but i just been realizing that i can simply choose to be around better people that gaf and just be happier bc i really don’t have to feel like this lol
and truly ppl will show you when they gaf. they don’t put plans off for over a week when they told you they’d do it, after originally not being respectful of your time with the original plan
yes this is specific bc it’s happening in real time
but it’s not that i can’t accept people change over time, i would’ve gone thru each season w this person as i would hope someone does for me. but they don’t want that so im gonna protect my peace and energy..right?