Some of you were 20 when you entered uni. Some of you, at 20, werenโt even as bold or confident as you are now. Some of you couldnโt even look a man or woman straight in the eye.
Wait! How do you expect an average 20 year old Nigerian girl to think or behave? Yโall are cr*zy.
Some of you are no longer 20, yet youโre judging a 20 year old based on your current stage of life, forgetting that she was just 20.
Some of you are past 25 now, but at 20, you made decisions that, if you think back today, youโd probably cringe at OR is it because your own bad decisions didnโt cost you your life that you now find it easy to judge her? Some of you are still making worse decisions even now.
Before you blame that girl, ask yourself: At 20, what was my level of maturity? How did I reason? How much did I really know about life?
The fact that your first instinct is to blame the victim instead of condemning the rap*st says a lot about you.