my grief over dolly and tim curry is absolutely parasocial but you can't understate the impact that both of those people had for queer people, for women, for people who have always had "weird" interests and big personalities, they were icons for anyone strange
hayden panettiere was a child star, a survivor of domestic violence, postpartum depression, sexual abuse and addiction, and a grieving big sister. she had been fighting like hell for a long time. she deserved to live a long happy life.