Enitan, your Saki example is a good reminder that food prices and household realities differ across Nigeria.
The models you are calling for already exist, and your point makes a strong case for using their local findings more often.
The NBS tracks the cost of a healthy diet by state and by urban or rural location. Its household survey also asks whether families have had enough food. We equally explored these differences in a Proshare analysis.
I agree that we should use those local findings more often. Six cheaper yams tell us something about prices in Saki, but we still need to know what households can afford and eat adequately across the year.
Here are 'References' on the outputs from the models you are interested in:
@NBS_Nigeria, Cost of a Healthy Diet: https://t.co/IxFKdLTdcR
@NBS_Nigeria, General Household Survey Panel, Wave 5: https://t.co/wR7cWHmpSC
@proshare, “What Four Costs Reveal About the Quality-of-Life Rankings Across Nigeria”: https://t.co/rAY640DL2C
Pain is part of the journey. It can be hard and rocky but your job is to make sure that you do not suffer unnecessarily.
So, optimise your processes to achieve more with less.
When I saw this post, my first thought was that maybe we really do overcomplicate life.
Someone stays in the same town, marries the same person he has known for years, keeps the same job, raises a family, has a dog, a garden, sees his friends, and lives what looks like a very ordinary life.
Then there is the friend who moved around, travelled the world, built businesses, took risks and lived a very different kind of life.
It is easy for the second person to look at the first and think, maybe this is what I should have done. But I also think the reverse is probably true.
The person who stayed in his hometown may sometimes look at his friend and think about all the places he has seen, the people he has met, the risks he has taken and the different experiences he has had.
We tend to know the difficult parts of our own lives very well. We know the boredom, the stress, the compromises and the things we gave up. With other people, we often see the parts that look attractive from where we are standing.
Someone who has travelled a lot may want stability. Someone who has stayed in one place may want movement. Someone with a very busy life may dream of quiet. Someone with too much quiet may be desperate for something new.
I personally do not think happiness is geographically defined. I also do not agree there is one correct way to live.
Some people are happiest in the town where they grew up. Some people need to leave. Some want to build a life across different places. Some want a bit of both.
What probably matters is enjoying the moment, being genuinely kind to ourselves and to other people, spending time with the people we love, and doing work that feels meaningful to us.
That can happen in your hometown or thousands of miles away. It can happen in a very ordinary life or in one that looks adventurous from the outside.
Most lives become ordinary eventually anyway.
The important thing is whether the life you are living still feels meaningful to you.