I USE TO accept a ngga getting mad at me & saying hurtful things to me! But the woman I am today WILL NEVER tolerate any type of disrespect. Words really do stick to me so be careful what you say to me. I take shit to the heart about my feelings!
Idk why everybody do this weird thing to me where they’ll do something to me and instead of apologizing they give me space and then think I’ll just come back around to it later 😭 … they killing the sweetheart in me day by day man!
My last relationship taught me that someone can hold you close, pretend to love you, and look at you like you're their entire world all while building a new one behind your back.
Dear girl
Never be in a relationship with someone that’s okay for being silent for days, not knowing your updates for a whole day, left you hanging alone, and never care about your feelings. Your feelings always matters for someone that cares about you
My own cup is empty. This is why I am currently unable to pour into others. If anyone cares about me, this is the time to pour into me. Even the strongest soldiers sometimes get vulnerable and need rest.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment ✌🏾
things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"
& another thing I will no longer be choosing the high road. I can cuss you the fuck out & still go back to being at peace. I’m not internalizing NOTHING!