why do "balls" imply toughness and "pussy" imply weakness when the slightest flick to the nuts sends a guy to his knees, yet a vagina can push out an entire being.?????
It took not a pedophile sex trafficking ring, not a genocide, not millions starving and losing their jobs, BUT a Druski skit to bring our politicians out of hiding.
America.
a lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? they’re just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????
everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager
> drive your friends to the airport
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort
People are getting mad at Zayn for saying he was never in love with Gigi (the mother of his child) and sure, that’s wild.
But they’re missing the real lesson here.
He said: “If I had been in love, I would’ve been a better version of myself.”
That’s the entire point, imo.
When a man truly loves you, he doesn’t stagnate. He will upgrade, regulate, become disciplined, idk do whatever is required to fix what’s broken without you having to beg/ask/try.
In my opinion (and Zayn’s words confirm this) love makes a man aspire. It sharpens him, makes him want to build, protect, provide, evolve because he wants to be worthy of the life you’re building together.
You cannot “fix” a man. You shouldn’t. Guy who loves you will fix himself. It’s what they do.
And if he isn’t becoming better with you, he simply isn’t in love.
Lesson in there ✌🏻
Zayn Malik tells ‘Call Her Daddy’ that he loves Gigi Hadid, but doesn’t think he was ever in love with her:
“My understanding of love is always developing. At that moment in time, I might’ve thought it was love, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized maybe it wasn’t. Maybe it was lust, maybe it was this, maybe it was that. I don’t feel like it was love. And to say this on record, I will always love G cause she’s the reason my child is on this Earth — and I have the utmost respect for her. I will always love her, but I don’t know if I was ever in love with her. […] I felt like when I [first] said it, I think people took it a tap away. So I’m just like, I have so much respect for this woman and I do love her, a crazy amount, but no. I don’t think I was in love with her at that point, otherwise I would’ve been a better version of myself.”